i agree to dis-agree -->A friend in need is a friend indeed. ie: its only necessity that drives friendship & nothing else.
Ranjhith
· 2 years ago
@Aparna Thanks. :)
@Adiya I wish to agree your disagreement, if you cud say something to support your claim. :)
It all boils down to selfishness when it comes to friendliness. :P Its rude, but its the truth.
Adiya
· 2 years ago
Its nothing but Expectation Management. If you know how to balance that expectation management then 4 quarter of the problem solved. rest u don;t have to call "Selfish Fellows are your friends " dont you. by the way friendship, relationship is a on-going process. people gets matured day by day thinking tangetially in all directions. todays friendship might be tomorrows foe and tomorrows foe would be day after tomorrows good will person.
Have good energy circle within you, remove unwanted people, treated them as person and help if u can and automatically u will what you want. rest of the fellows don;t give them a sight. they are all acquitaince. if you have get any body so far .. don;t worry mine for them. Me 2 doing it. .:)
so far every body is good for me. just certain behaviours is bad thats it. :)
Adiya
· 2 years ago
further i can turn the selfishness table as "Surival is the fittest" that doesn't mean he is wrong as long as ur not defeated in his selfish game. :) chillax dude. World is like that. :)
Ranjhith
· 2 years ago
@Adiya
I'm not complaining. :) And, no relationship had gone sore. Just that, I realized this.
> help if u can and automatically u will what you want.
You can help anyone, not necessarily a friend. I get this.
I meant about, "Falling into Friendliness". May be, I'll call it as "Involuntary Selfishness" :) Which you never consciously want to exhibit, but it happens involuntarily.
The World is full of to-be-friends. :)
Adiya
· 2 years ago
thats get go stuff .. dude.. :) u rock.
vaishnav
· 2 years ago
i enjoyed the interaction of you and adiya. you speak things blunt and many people feel it rude because i experience the same. people go personal when we xpress things plain with no personal feeling and people judge us so.
nice done dude. i am enjoying your expressions.
Ranjhith
· 2 years ago
@Adiya I'm sure that, you didn't mean that I'm rock hearted. :) Thanks. :)
@Vaishnav Yep! Truth is Bitter. But, I'm kinda worried, if it continues, whether I'll be detached from family, get depressed, .... Boo Boo. We'll hope for the good.
venuss66
· 2 years ago
Yes, friend in need is a friend indeed. Some are nice friends and some are good friends. Can you define nice friends and good friends?:))
Ranjhith
· 2 years ago
@Venus66
Welcome to thŕattle! :)
> Can you define nice friends and good friends?:)) Nice friends will be nicer & not Good. Good friends are just good & will not be nice. The variations of "Nice" can be substituted with the variations of "Please". :)
In other words, Nice Friends will exhibit "Voluntary Selfishness" while the Good will exhibit "Involuntary Selfishness" :D
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i agree to dis-agree
-->A friend in need is a friend indeed. ie: its only necessity that drives friendship & nothing else.
Thanks. :)
@Adiya
I wish to agree your disagreement, if you cud say something to support your claim. :)
It all boils down to selfishness when it comes to friendliness. :P Its rude, but its the truth.
Have good energy circle within you, remove unwanted people, treated them as person and help if u can and automatically u will what you want. rest of the fellows don;t give them a sight. they are all acquitaince. if you have get any body so far .. don;t worry mine for them. Me 2 doing it. .:)
so far every body is good for me. just certain behaviours is bad thats it. :)
I'm not complaining. :) And, no relationship had gone sore. Just that, I realized this.
> help if u can and automatically u will what you want.
You can help anyone, not necessarily a friend. I get this.
I meant about, "Falling into Friendliness". May be, I'll call it as "Involuntary Selfishness" :) Which you never consciously want to exhibit, but it happens involuntarily.
The World is full of to-be-friends. :)
you speak things blunt and many people feel it rude because i experience the same. people go personal when we xpress things plain with no personal feeling and people judge us so.
nice done dude. i am enjoying your expressions.
I'm sure that, you didn't mean that I'm rock hearted. :) Thanks. :)
@Vaishnav
Yep! Truth is Bitter. But, I'm kinda worried, if it continues, whether I'll be detached from family, get depressed, .... Boo Boo. We'll hope for the good.
Welcome to thŕattle! :)
> Can you define nice friends and good friends?:))
Nice friends will be nicer & not Good. Good friends are just good & will not be nice. The variations of "Nice" can be substituted with the variations of "Please". :)
In other words, Nice Friends will exhibit "Voluntary Selfishness" while the Good will exhibit "Involuntary Selfishness" :D